a Civilized Way to Disagree

Psychology, Social Psychology

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions, […]

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…on Friend and Friendship

Developmental Psychology, Psychology

“Books! And cleverness! There are more important things – friendship and bravery” – Hermione Granger Every Potterhead like me must have been dreaming about having friends and friendship like what Harry had in his journey, but our reality is different from Harry’s reality because we are living in this boring muggle’s universe. Friendship is carved […]

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I really am not OKAY

Clinical Psychology, Psychology

Happy Mother’s day for all the mother in this world, whether alive or passed away.. but.. I won’t write about mother’s day… I have been neglecting this blog for far too long, I wish I could make my work as an excuse, I wish I could say that I have nothing to write. Instead, I […]

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Mumbling #6 – Social Media

Psychology, Social Psychology

Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshare […]

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Watching Gravity

Personality, Psychology

I always love watching movies. Any kind of movie (except animation, maybe). The last movie I saw was Gravity and it was amazing movie, no wonder it got many awards. Sandra Bullock did amazing job in that movie, although I keep admiring how George Clooney impressed me in only few scenes. Enough talking about the […]

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Stranger = 1, Me = 0


..as a Mundane, Living Life

Last Friday couldn’t have been worse, yet better at the same time. I was waking up to such a spirit that I would attend The SabangMerauke Diversity Dinner in Friday night – been longing to meet SM’s Big Family after months since our farewell dinner. My spirit was not up for too long because just […]

November 30, 2017

Gio and Lia


Volunteering, Youth Act

Okay, since I already begin writing about SabangMerauke, I couldn’t stop now without telling stories about these two girls! They couldn’t be any different. One is very mischievous while the other one is more of an uptight kind of girl (I don’t want to detail which one is which 😆 ) Gio, like what I’ve […]

August 16, 2017

SabangMerauke : The true unity in Diversity


Volunteering, Youth Act

Bhinneka Tunggal Ika is the Motto of Indonesia which means Unity in Diversity. We, as an Indonesians have known, learned, and read many articles trying to describe the meaning. Do you ever give a thought about the real implementation of these motto? Only couple of people have a real experience living with people from different […]

August 16, 2017

Ramadhan Mubarak


..as a Moslem, Living Life

Assalamu’alaikum.. May peace be upon you. yes! PEACE. The one word that we’re using more often these days, in Indonesia and through out the rest of the world. Reading, hearing, and watching the news become more traumatizing and depressing. Terrorism, wars, oppressions, anarchist, and criminal acts are the main topic of almost all of the […]

May 29, 2017

Canberra, I’m madly in love with you!


Travellove

People say that chance will never come twice, grab it fast.That was exactly what brought me to Canberra last week. I see a chance, I take it…. and I felt in love again. I need to write this, just so I can going back to my ordinarily wonderful life. This is not a story about […]

May 23, 2017