Feminism and Diversity

Psychology, Social Psychology

This is my take on Final Match of The 2018 World Cup – France vs Croatia. This match is beyond the football court. Many kind of narratives are being shared about the team: feminism and diversity are things that pop up in my mind after I figure out ton of things behind both team.

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a Civilized Way to Disagree

Psychology, Social Psychology

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions, […]

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…on Friend and Friendship

Developmental Psychology, Psychology

“Books! And cleverness! There are more important things – friendship and bravery” – Hermione Granger Every Potterhead like me must have been dreaming about having friends and friendship like what Harry had in his journey, but our reality is different from Harry’s reality because we are living in this boring muggle’s universe. Friendship is carved […]

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I really am not OKAY

Clinical Psychology, Psychology

Happy Mother’s day for all the mother in this world, whether alive or passed away.. but.. I won’t write about mother’s day… I have been neglecting this blog for far too long, I wish I could make my work as an excuse, I wish I could say that I have nothing to write. Instead, I […]

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Mumbling #6 – Social Media

Psychology, Social Psychology

Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshare […]

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Feminism and Diversity


Psychology, Social Psychology

This is my take on Final Match of The 2018 World Cup – France vs Croatia. This match is beyond the football court. Many kind of narratives are being shared about the team: feminism and diversity are things that pop up in my mind after I figure out ton of things behind both team.

July 17, 2018

2017 in a flash


..as a Mundane, Living Life

So, just like any other year.. 2017 also passed by so quickly. My blogging activity through out the year was not something that I can be proud of. In spite of my effort to keep motivating myself, I couldn’t find enough time and energy to spend in writing post. *sigh* As my last resort, I […]

December 31, 2017

Stranger = 1, Me = 0


..as a Mundane, Living Life

Last Friday couldn’t have been worse, yet better at the same time. I was waking up to such a spirit that I would attend The SabangMerauke Diversity Dinner in Friday night – been longing to meet SM’s Big Family after months since our farewell dinner. My spirit was not up for too long because just […]

November 30, 2017

Gio and Lia


Volunteering, Youth Act

Okay, since I already begin writing about SabangMerauke, I couldn’t stop now without telling stories about these two girls! They couldn’t be any different. One is very mischievous while the other one is more of an uptight kind of girl (I don’t want to detail which one is which 😆 ) Gio, like what I’ve […]

August 16, 2017