a Civilized Way to Disagree


Psychology, Social Psychology

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions, […]

June 29, 2015

…on Friend and Friendship


Developmental Psychology, Psychology

“Books! And cleverness! There are more important things – friendship and bravery” – Hermione Granger Every Potterhead like me must have been dreaming about having friends and friendship like what Harry had in his journey, but our reality is different from Harry’s reality because we are living in this boring muggle’s universe. Friendship is carved […]

March 26, 2015

I really am not OKAY


Clinical Psychology, Psychology

Happy Mother’s day for all the mother in this world, whether alive or passed away.. but.. I won’t write about mother’s day… I have been neglecting this blog for far too long, I wish I could make my work as an excuse, I wish I could say that I have nothing to write. Instead, I […]

December 22, 2014

Mumbling #6 – Social Media


Psychology, Social Psychology

Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshare […]

May 9, 2014

Watching Gravity


Personality, Psychology

I always love watching movies. Any kind of movie (except animation, maybe). The last movie I saw was Gravity and it was amazing movie, no wonder it got many awards. Sandra Bullock did amazing job in that movie, although I keep admiring how George Clooney impressed me in only few scenes. Enough talking about the […]

April 23, 2014

They love me, they love me not


Personality, Psychology

Last week, we studied about personality in my classes and my students got very fascinated by Freud’s Defense Mechanism. I asked them to try to analyze their own personality with one of the Personality Theory as our weekly assignment and most of them analyzed their kind of defense mechanism. There are many forms of defense […]

April 18, 2014

Truth is: We are dating our own mind


Psychology, Social Psychology

Have you feel loved? Have you feel special? Have you feel neglected? Have you feel disappointed? Yes. I Know you have. We are all have experienced those feeling. If you are now in a relationship, do you really feel happy about what your spouse does for you? Are you really satisfied with your relationship? I […]

January 11, 2014