a Civilized Way to Disagree


Psychology, Social Psychology

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions, […]

June 29, 2015

Mumbling #6 – Social Media


Psychology, Social Psychology

Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshare […]

May 9, 2014

Truth is: We are dating our own mind


Psychology, Social Psychology

Have you feel loved? Have you feel special? Have you feel neglected? Have you feel disappointed? Yes. I Know you have. We are all have experienced those feeling. If you are now in a relationship, do you really feel happy about what your spouse does for you? Are you really satisfied with your relationship? I […]

January 11, 2014

Emaaakkkkk


Personality, Psychology, Social Psychology

Baru aja kemarin saya baca artikel  tentang pegawai wanita yang diberhentikan karena dianggap terlalu menarik dan mengganggu kinerja para pegawai pria. Kemudian ada lagi CEO salah satu perusahaan besar yang kebetulan wanita menjadi feature pada salah satu tabloid dianggap merendahkan jabatannya karena dia berpose cantik layaknya wanita. Layaknya. Wanita. Something sounds wrong there. And then […]

January 8, 2014

mumbling #2


Psychology, Social Psychology

 Go up close to your friend, but do not go over to him! We should also respect the enemy in our friend. -Friedrich Nietzsche I don’t know what I want to state in this post. Been through harsh time recently and just couldn’t find  the perfect words to describe what i’ve been through in my […]

December 7, 2012

Empati, Toleransi dan Ketidakpedulian


Psychology, Social Psychology

Empati, selama saya belajar ilmu psikologi selalu diartikan sebagai suatu kondisi dimana kita bisa merasakan perasaan orang lain dan bisa menempatkan diri kita pada posisi orang tersebut. Toleransi adalah bagaimana kita bisa saling menghormati hak dan kewajiban orang lain sehingga tidak saling membenturkan hak tiap-tiap individu sedangkan ketidakpedulian adalah bagaimana kita membiarkan saja seseorang melakukan […]

November 2, 2012

Labelling


Psychology, Social Psychology

Menyambung post ini, saya juga ingin membagi opini saya mengenai hal lain yang bisa menimbulkan prasangka, bukan hanya diturunkan oleh orang tua kita saja. Beberapa waktu yang lalu saya dapat curhatan dari seorang teman yang lagi ada masalah dengan beberapa orang temannya. Mungkin sebelum saya bercerita lebih jauh, saya beri ilustrasi nya dulu ya.. Panggil […]

June 5, 2012

The Origin of Prejudice


Psychology, Social Psychology

When we were children, our parents used to teach us how to greet others, how to respect the older people, how to care the younger and how to interact with our peers. They share their values to us, consciously or unconsciously and we become an imitation of them…. for a while, until we are closer […]

June 5, 2012