a Civilized Way to Disagree

Psychology, Social Psychology

If you are not in the same path with others in one thing, if what they did hurt you deep in the heart, even if it really is something beyond forgiven in your faith.. Please disagree in a civilized way. For what my God taught me, hate the belief, not the believer. Condemn the actions, […]

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…on Friend and Friendship

Developmental Psychology, Psychology

“Books! And cleverness! There are more important things – friendship and bravery” – Hermione Granger Every Potterhead like me must have been dreaming about having friends and friendship like what Harry had in his journey, but our reality is different from Harry’s reality because we are living in this boring muggle’s universe. Friendship is carved […]

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I really am not OKAY

Clinical Psychology, Psychology

Happy Mother’s day for all the mother in this world, whether alive or passed away.. but.. I won’t write about mother’s day… I have been neglecting this blog for far too long, I wish I could make my work as an excuse, I wish I could say that I have nothing to write. Instead, I […]

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Mumbling #6 – Social Media

Psychology, Social Psychology

Do you know that social media is a social thing, not your own private stuff? I almost can’t stop my self from laughing every time I hear or read a defensive sentence such as “this is my account, I can do whatever I want with it, if you all feel uncomfortable, feel free to unfriend/unfollow/unshare […]

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Watching Gravity

Personality, Psychology

I always love watching movies. Any kind of movie (except animation, maybe). The last movie I saw was Gravity and it was amazing movie, no wonder it got many awards. Sandra Bullock did amazing job in that movie, although I keep admiring how George Clooney impressed me in only few scenes. Enough talking about the […]

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I Write, because..

..as a Blogger, Living Life

I never know that writing need a cause. I simply love to write. Since my childhood time, I write about anything. Like any little girl, I owned a diary filled with my emotions. I was a pretty dark girl: stormy mood, full of anger and shyness, not a good combination. My diary was full with […]

December 30, 2016

Before 2017

..as a Blogger, Living Life

Like usual, as a challenge for my self to blog more, I sign up to a writing challenge/course. Since the Blogging U now has the on demand program, It is more convenient for me. I already signed up to some course, so there will be many thematic posts coming in the future. I want to […]

December 30, 2016

2016 in a recap

..as a Wife and a Mom, Living Life

It is that time of the year again, where everyone is posting their #bestnine in Instagram.. and here I am, pretending that I haven’t been neglecting this blog for a whole year. 😀 So, how’s life? 2016 is magical year! at least for me.. I have a SON. Whew! I can’t believe it either, but […]

December 29, 2016

Honeymoon Post #1 : The Flamingo Dewata Villa


Ever since my mind full of wedding plan, the honeymoon plan is also included. I always wanted to spend the honeymoon in a room with private pool because I really want to swim without my long full coverage swimsuit (still not naked, sorry 😆 ). Since I am a full time procrastinator, my research for […]

December 31, 2015

The daRkJasmine in 2015

..as a Blogger, Living Life

It is nearly the end of 2015 and as always, WordPress will happily send us our annual report. This site is having a major setback from last year in statistic but in real life, I am very grateful to say that Allah has granted me many loves and wonderful events – but it will be […]

December 30, 2015